Controlling current chaos through containers

            One of my flaws happens to be how I handle stress. For those around me, it’s nothing new, and they just let me do my thing, but for...

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Making cakes and eating them, too

After my position was eliminated last year, I decided to take advantage of the extra time on my hands by tackling something on my bucket list: cake decorating. My mom was always...

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Word of the day

Is it unusual to wake up with a random word on your brain? I do this regularly, but I am not sure if others do the same or not. About a week ago the word was “excoriate.” Before...

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What happens on the way to Vegas…

Posted by on Jul 9, 2014 in What I Think

What happens on the way to Vegas…

indexAs I had posted earlier, I was preparing for a trip to Las Vegas as my husband James was going to compete at the Barbershop Harmony Society’s International Championship at the MGM Grand.

After weeks of preparation, saving, packing and all that goes with an extended trip, I thought I was ready to go. But no amount of weighing my baggage, double-checking my flight documents and checking in with my puppy-sitter was going to help with what happened.

The plan was this: Take two-and-a-half days to drive out to Las Vegas with my in-laws and fly back home so that my hubby and I could volunteer at Uncle Dave Macon Days, which was only a couple days after the end of the contest.

We were going to drive from Nashville, where we dropped off our car, to Oklahoma City on day one, and then to Phoenix on day two. In between we were going to take James’ dad to the airport in Albuquerque since he needed to be in Vegas a day ahead of us — he’s on the convention team and helps backstage at the contest.

Once in Phoenix, we would be picking up my sister-in-law Katie and her boyfriend Dan, who had flown out early to visit his grandmother in Arizona.

Yes, this is a convoluted plan, but it is typical of traveling with my husband’s family.

Anyway, none of that is really important when you consider that while stopping for breakfast at Hardee’s in Nashville the air conditioning in my in-law’s car goes out. Freon goes spewing in a fine mist out from under the hood.

Rather than go pick up our car, which is only a few miles away, “we” opt to pick up some Freon and continue on our way.

It rained from Arkansas on. That meant we had the windows up. It was steamy, uncomfortable, and made for a long day. I was ready for a shower and the cool sheets in the hotel room in Oklahoma City.

We left early the next morning to travel during the cooler morning hours. Good idea. And it wasn’t so bad until mid-day. But once we got to the desert, well, it was miserable. Even with the windows down it was ridiculously hot. All I could imagine were covered wagons crossing the country with women in petticoats and layers of clothes while I was dying in a tank top and inhaling water and PowerAde.

Luckily, in between trading off driving shifts, I slept quite a bit of the trip on day two. Even after picking up Katie and Dan that evening, I was too worn out to really care about being “sardined” into a small SUV with five adults.

On a positive note, the stars in the desert are really breathtaking.

As you can imagine, we were all a bit harried the next morning, and we didn’t leave as early, so the mid-day temperatures were upon our car sooner than the day before. I thought miserable was steamy and hot, but I was wrong. The air was arid, dusty, and there was nothing to look at for miles but cacti forestry. That was truly amazing: the hundreds of cacti across the sandy terrain.

Ever played the video game “Red Dead Redemption”? Yeah, it looked exactly like that area of Mexico.

By the time we did make it to Las Vegas, we were ready to kill each other, half-way delirious from dehydration, and exhausted easily from even attempting easy tasks like showering or eating.

Think a nice scenic drive through the Southwest would make a good bucket list item? I wouldn’t recommend it. Well, unless you have air conditioning anyway.

But the rest of the trip was exciting, even when I took a spill from falling on water in the elevator corridor at the Luxor. Apparently someone didn’t dry off too well after leaving the pool, so I ended up having a decidedly artistic bruise on my hip and behind.

Still, my husband’s chorus finished 7th place in the world, so I’m pretty proud of him and the rest of the guys in Music City Chorus.

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Blogging for catharsis versus career

Posted by on Jun 14, 2014 in What I Think

There are plenty of times that I read about something in the news and get so incensed that I am immediately grabbing my laptop to lash out at the trolls online or share my obviously more enlightened — smirk — opinion. However, while this may increase the page views, it may not lead to more paychecks.

So, then I must temper my reactions and think about whether it is in my best interest to share my feelings about this or that happening. On the one hand, it does prove that I keep up with current events and pop culture, but that has very little to do with creating web content for a retailer.

I could share my values, beliefs and thoughts on various situations, news stories, and other blogs, some of which may not be very popular, considering they are often very conservative.

Still, on the other hand, it may be better to keep my emotions in check and focus on showcasing my skills and experience, which is more likely to help me connect with clients.

For the time being, I’m sticking to sharing my thoughts on other topics.

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Practicing safe packing

Posted by on Jun 6, 2014 in What I Think

By now I’ve established that I’m a bit odd, but here is another example.

My husband James and I are planning a pretty big trip here in several weeks. Being a list maker I’ve already made tons: what to do before we leave, what to take, what to do when we get there, etc.

Anticipation is apparently something I live for, and drawing it out by making lists regarding whatever I’m looking forward to makes it enjoyable. Then prepping weeks in advance continues the joy. Well, that’s my theory, anyway.

Actually it’s because I’m a control freak, and it gives me some sense of knowing what’s going on, or allowing me to feel less stressed about some other aspect of my life. Whatever.

Part of that includes getting all my outfits for the trip well before I have any real reason to pack so I can look at them, switch them out, make decisions, remake them. Does it help me avoid over-packing? Maybe, but not really.

It inadvertently makes me practice clothing abstinence. Yes, you read that right. Clothing abstinence. That’s when you put your cute outfits you want to take on a trip on display to help make packing decision but refuse to wear them at any time between now and the time you go on your trip. Once you are in your vacation locale, you can put on your ensemble and it feels special again.

Uh-huh. Exactly.

I’ve never been normal. I accept it.

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